Relationship: Marry for love not feelings – Counsellor Adofoli

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• ControverisialGirl 9 years ago

  To say we shouldnt decide to marry based on feelings but rather love,is very contradictory?
  becos love itself is a Feeling.
  
  Check the definition of love:"a strong FEELING of affection."
  So to say Marry for love not feeli ...
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  To say we shouldnt decide to marry based on feelings but rather love,is very contradictory?
  becos love itself is a Feeling.
  
  Check the definition of love:"a strong FEELING of affection."
  So to say Marry for love not feelings ,is the same as saying dont marry for love.
  How can you love someone without having feelings for them???
  
  Please come again, Perhaps you meant INFATUATION,if so then it makes sense but not feelings!

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• Kwame 9 years ago

  Am sorry but i think he really do understand what he is saying. Your definition of love is base on intellectual understanding not what the bible considers as love. He has quoted the scriptures and you should take your time an ...
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  Am sorry but i think he really do understand what he is saying. Your definition of love is base on intellectual understanding not what the bible considers as love. He has quoted the scriptures and you should take your time and study it carefully. Feelings has conditions as he has explained but God kind of love is what prevails in every situation.

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• pk 9 years ago

  u said strong feelings of affection the key word here is affection not the feelings so stop that bla bla

  u said strong feelings of affection the key word here is affection not the feelings so stop that bla bla

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• miriam 9 years ago

  God bless u counselor

  God bless u counselor

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• Eric 9 years ago

  I have also realised that many marriages dont end well because from the beginning people said they look good tgether instead of they will be happy together.

  I have also realised that many marriages dont end well because from the beginning people said they look good tgether instead of they will be happy together.

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• Haile Selaise Mengistus II 9 years ago

  I think Counsellor Adofoli has a misunderstanding of what LOVE and FEELING are. In reality and at the deepest level love is a feeling,but not all feelings is love.
  Love in its pure and selfless sense is the most Potent force ...
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  I think Counsellor Adofoli has a misunderstanding of what LOVE and FEELING are. In reality and at the deepest level love is a feeling,but not all feelings is love.
  Love in its pure and selfless sense is the most Potent force in the universe,while feeling is mans most potent force. Feeling can be negative or positive. Our actions and motives are driven by the dynamo of our feelings leading to either positive or negative outcomes.

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• Nana K 9 years ago

  Tell me , what's the difference? That means we should act as fools when we love? Then the men will kill the women everyday if they realise they are loved so much.

  Tell me , what's the difference? That means we should act as fools when we love? Then the men will kill the women everyday if they realise they are loved so much.

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• Observer 9 years ago

  What is love without feelings?

  What is love without feelings?

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• Francis Adu 9 years ago

  Please can I have your contact. I want to see for a counselling.

  Please can I have your contact. I want to see for a counselling.

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